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14th Jun 2021

Manifesting with Seyi Bank-Oni

Welcome the first guest to the BraveHearted woman podcast; Seyi Bank-Oni. Seyi is a manifestation marketing coach with an MBA in marketing and brand management. She combines business and manifestation principles to help new coaches secure 4-figure clients so they can quit their 9-5 jobs and step into their true purpose.

You can connect with Seyi on these social media platforms:

Instagram: @thebrandpowerhouse

Clubhouse: @brandpowerhouse

Your Host: Dawn Damon, is a Pastor, Speaker, Award-Winning Author, and your Bravehearted Woman Podcast host, coach, and mentor.

Find out more by visiting: www.dawndamon.com

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Check out her books: www.amazon.com/author/dawnscottdamon

Transcript

Dawn Damon 0:51

Welcome, everybody, you are listening to one of the very first podcast of the brave hearted woman. And I'm excited today for you as my listener because I have an amazing treat for you. Today on my program, I have Seyi and you're going to learn more about her Seyi is a manifestation marketing coach. Yes, you heard that with an MBA and marketing and brand management. And she combines the manifestation principles to help new coaches secure four figure clients so they can quit their nine to five jobs and step into their true purpose. And that's what we're all about here on the brave hearted woman. We're living our vision. We're living our purpose. We're coming out of confusion. And we're stepping into the call on our lives. And so I'm so excited. Welcome, Seyi. Thank you for being here with us today.

Seyi Bank-Oni 1:49

Oh, much. Thank you so much, Dawn, that's an awesome introduction. What can I add? What can I add? What can I say? Um, yes, I'm a I'm a manifestation marketing coach. And I'm so passionate about all things law of attraction, and all things manifestation, and all things marketing. So of course, I had to combine it all into one and help other women leave their nine to five jobs like I did. Because I like to say I'm a little bit of a rebel, I don't like authority. And I believe there's so much more for people who feel like there was a calling on their life, or they have a deeper purpose than working. A typical job. There's nothing wrong with that if that's what you want. But when you feel like and you know that there is more out there for you, there has to be more to life than that. I like to empower women, because it's not easy. I like to empower women to step out of that role into the unknown.

Dawn Damon 2:41

So beautiful because yeah, there's all types of personalities and temperaments and some people that may be their life, they enjoy doing the routine and the ability and the structure. And that feels very good. But there are some wild hearts like yourself, and free flowing spirits, entrepreneurial spirits that say, I want adventure, I want uncertainty, I want to I want to do something risky. And so for those people, you are called and you speak directly. In fact, when I first heard you we were on clubhouse, and I heard you speaking it was making me leap. And I'll tell you what it was because I'm a believer, and I know you are and believer in God. And sometimes believers sometimes feel that you mentioned the law of attraction that that's a conflict. But in reality, it's really not a conflict is it? Before we dive into that, though, I want to know your story. How did you get out of your nine to five?

Seyi Bank-Oni 3:43

Hmm, where do I start? Um, so like I mentioned, I've always been a rebel. Um, I was raised. I'm not just I was raised, but everything I have always known in terms of like what you're supposed to do, you're supposed to go to work, go to school, graduate, get a job. It's just, it's just what it is. So I grew up thinking that that's how it had to be. And I would literally go from job to job to job knowing that this there has to be more to life. I didn't know what that more was, but I knew there had to be more my parents just thought, Oh, she's just a spoiled brat. You know, I'm the last kid you know, my sister, she's a pharmacist she's doing you know, on the straight and narrow my other sister working in it doing all they're supposed to do. I mean, there was me just jumping from job to job at some point. I was like, okay, maybe I'm supposed to be a DJ because I loved music.

And it seemed I was the reason why I thought about being a DJ was because it was still a job was still a job, right? It was still structured, but it was there was still a bit of freedom. And I was just looking for that freedom anywhere I could and because I didn't know much about you know, business and entrepreneurship. I was functioning in that that limits, you know, in that box, so I was just looking for answers within that box. Not

There was so much more out there. And it just never worked out. It just never worked out, I was a great worker, any job I've worked at, they would, they would never want to let me go. At some point I started like going back to school, anything to escape the nine to five world I went to get my masters To be honest, because I wanted to just run away from from working a job. And then that's kind of where I discovered my passion for marketing, because I just did a lot of research on like,

trying to find my purpose did a lot of research and like, Okay, this marketing thing looks good. Let me get some more knowledge on it. Let me understand it more. And then I went to school for my MBA, which was amazing. I went to school in France, by the way, that's a whole nother story.

Dawn Damon 5:38

Oh, wondering,

do you speak French? I'm

Seyi Bank-Oni 5:46

not quite. I'm trying, I'm trying. But then I went back to I went back to school. And then when I finished from France, move back to my home country of Nigeria. This is me, just trying to escape the nine to five routine. I was in Nigeria for like two years. And I ended up working two jobs, once again, looking, looking for the answer, basically. And it didn't really hit me that maybe nine to five aren't for you. I kept thinking maybe if I go to the next job or the next job. And it wasn't until

I sat down and asked myself a lot of questions like, Hey, girl, maybe this isn't a thing. And I had, I started to get exposed to other people who own businesses, and a lot of my friends actually owned businesses, but we never talked about businesses, because we didn't really have anything to connect on that level. And I started to get exposed and do a lot of research. And in my own personal life, I used to coach a lot of people and encourage a lot of people. It's, I wasn't getting paid for it. But it was something that I did. And honestly, Google is the best, and you're trying to find your purpose. Because if you just type in random keywords, that's what I did. And that's how I actually stumbled on coaching. And my mind was completely blown like, is this a thing is this a, there's something I can get paid for encouraging people for helping people move on to their purpose, and all that good stuff, something was already doing naturally, I was already doing naturally right. Um, and I think another another way I kind of knew coaching was for me was because I knew that I could definitely monetize my skills and my expertise and all of that good stuff. So once I honed down and figured out what that was, it was kind of like a no brainer. So because I didn't have a lot of experience in I want to say structured coaching the business side of things, or having an online business, I took a course. And I also hired a coach, which I think is a very important thing to highlight. I didn't just like, completely jump into it. But I needed to learn the business side of things. And that's how I got into coaching. Now, on the nine to five side of things. I still had, I still had a nine to five job when I started coaching, right. And it was as I continue to invest in myself as I continue to transform people's lives and continue to see that change. I knew that okay, this makes sense. I'm not meant to be an a nine to five, I meant to be a full time coach, because I can't do the two. There's a lot of people who are able to have a side business of coaching. But for me, I had to go all in. That's my personality. I had to completely go all in. And that's my story. It's a wild story. But then again, I'm a wild girl.

Yeah, that's a bit of my story.

Dawn Damon 8:25

It's awesome. I love it. Because you know, I think about Tony Robbins who talk about the six drivers of people and one of the the motivational drivers are the things that really juice you and stir you Some people love certainty. But there are people who love uncertainty. There's people who love security and connection. And there's people who say, I will get bored so quickly. So very much as what the third daughter is that what I'm hearing

Seyi Bank-Oni 8:53

the last daughter,

Dawn Damon 8:54

the last daughter, I am too by the way, daughter so but you right from the very beginning, you were someone who needed that. The adventure and sounds like the the uncertainty or just the free flowing and you do it so beautifully. So how did you start to learn about this thing that we're talking about with the law of attraction? And how what is that? And how does it work?

Seyi Bank-Oni 9:24

That's a great question. So I sort of stumbled on the law of attraction about five years ago,

probably longer now that I think about it, but about let's just say about five years ago. So I was in a tumultuous relationship. And it was it was terrible. It completely crushed my spirit. It was a complete, complete, complete mess. don't even want to work.

Dawn Damon 9:49

Before you go on. We're just pause right there. Come on everybody. Let's keep it real tumultuous relationship. I just think there are some people listening right now. Tune up

Because you yourself are in a relationship. And you right now are listening to this podcast on purpose. Go ahead.

Seyi Bank-Oni:

Actually, I love that. Um, so I was in a tumultuous relationship was very oh my gosh, emotionally abusive basically.

And thankfully Thank You, Jesus, thank you Lord, it ended, it ended and ended it ended. And I remember feeling I was down, I was broken, I was crushed, I thought my life was over, oh my god, I'm gonna die. How am I ever going to recover. And I remember like, with so much emotion with so much passion with so much vigor writing down, it took it took a journal. And I didn't know about journaling. I had no idea about journaling or law of attraction. I had heard about it, but I didn't really know. I took a pen and my journal. And I wrote a letter to the Lord. It was like a prayer list. And it was like, Lord, I never want this to happen again, whoever you bring to me Next, because I was engaged to this person, right. So which was even worse, because it was like, This is the person I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with. And I wrote down like really well with like, a lot of emotion charged and I was like, the next person you bring to me has to be I wrote a list. I still have the journal somewhere. I wrote a list of like, 15 things. And those 15 things to me at the time, were kind of impossible. There were a lot of things there that I was like, there was no way there's there's no way but I was still like, you know what, this is what I want. If you're not gonna give it to me, I'm gonna die single, right? And I wrote every single thing down to the tee when I tell you I was so specific. And as time went on, and I healed and everything. Once in a while, I would just go back to it just randomly, maybe once in a while, maybe once every six months. I don't know, I wasn't really paying attention to it. But just to like, take a look and see what what did i right there, you know, and move on with my life. And I kid you not the following year, when I moved back to my home country, the stars aligned and just gonna fast forward. But I met who ended up being my husband, john, and I always got goosebumps when I'm telling the story. Live every single, every single thing, even down to the craziest thing on the list. If I told you what, which was, what was it? So there was there was a part of it that I wanted someone who lived in Nigeria, but also lived in Canada and wanted to live in both countries like move from country because I'd never stay in one spot, right? Sometimes I'm like, I'm sick of candidates cold. I want to move back to Nigeria for like six months. That's just what I do. And I wanted someone just like that someone that was open to living in Canada and blah, blah, blah, and all that good stuff. My husband. It's so funny. When I met my husband at the time he had been he was born and raised in Nigeria all his life. He was like 35 at the time or so. He had no desire to leave Nigeria. No, no, he wanted to just like, never leave. So in my mind was like, yeah, that's not the guy. My husband's here.

He's here, you know, and I got exactly what I wanted. And he's so open minded to it. Now, you know, living six months here, six months there, every single thing that I asked for on the list, was there down to another thing is a lot of my friends meet him. And they're like, is he is he real? Is he? And also Is he really a Nigerian man? Because a lot of Nigerian men are very traditional. You know, it's like the man and woman. My husband does everything for me. He never wants me to lift a finger. My friends were like, is he was he really born and raised? And it's this really possibly, you know, I don't know where he came from. I see it all the time. I don't know where he came from, like he dropped from the sky. But literally every single thing that I wanted, I got it. And that's when I realized, Oh, no, this, that's the best part. The best part is when I journal, I usually write the date and the time that I'm writing my things down, which I did. And it wasn't until last year or the year before I was having a it just crossed my mind for some reason to go back to that list. And look at the date and the time. And I looked at the date and I looked at the time, I was like wait a minute. And then I went to my phone and I was like scrolling, scrolling scrolling to the picture I took on our first date, Dawn it was the same exact day a year later happen at the time, like the time frame. We were on our first date when How does that happen? How does that happen?

Dawn Damon:

That's just incredible.

Seyi Bank-Oni:

It's crazy.

Dawn Damon:

You know, I i'm i've got chills over here because I have to tell you that you and I have almost the identical story,

Seyi Bank-Oni:

no way.

Dawn Damon:

Because I was married for 28 years and I went through a divorce. It was very painful time and devastation and crushed all that you just mentioned about the tumultuous relationship. It wasn't abusive, but in some ways it was it was very painful in any way. After about four years I I took out a piece of paper and I wrote everything down. I submitted it to God and I just began to believe for that to happen.

Everything that I asked for specifically, yeah, business owner, ministry minded business owner in finance, business owner, what supporting 501 c three ministry good teeth. I mean everything.

Seyi Bank-Oni:

Wow,

Dawn Damon:

I understand what you're saying. It's powerful. Isn't it?

Seyi Bank-Oni:

powerful

Dawn Damon:

So to the one year to the day, or you were there you are on your first date with this man.

Seyi Bank-Oni:

Exactly. Exactly. And at the time, I had no idea. I had absolutely no idea. It's so funny how God works. And that's kind of how I that's that's kind of my first foray into manifestation on the law of attraction. And it wasn't until maybe like two years ago, when I was on YouTube, going down the YouTube rabbit hole, or a year ago, when I realized, Oh, this is the thing. It's called journaling or scripting. And then I started to think about all the other things even down to when I came back to Canada, the exact apartment I wanted to conquer. Oh, my God, the the housing market in Canada is crazy. It's almost impossible to get what you want.

But the exact condo I wanted down to the type of spiral staircase that connects the top to the book, down to the tee, exactly as I wrote it down is what I call the exact car I wanted. I don't even know like it was just like, how are these things happening? Right? And then I started to look into from YouTube, but that's when I found it. Oh, manifestation that's a thing. Oh, I do this already. Um, and in recent times, I've found out that I'm actually a very powerful manifester. It's so crazy, like I literally, to the point where I'm so careful about the things I say now because they will come to pass. I asked, I just asked God, like, I want this, this desires on my heart, I feel like you put this desire in my heart, if you put this desire in my heart, this is what I want. It's, you know, it's like I have that direct access to just ask for what I want. And it's just so amazing. And there's just so many ways, scripting, visualizing, visualizing is a huge one. Anytime I like visualize something and see myself put, you know, match that energy of what I want. It always always always comes to pass that I can't explain it. It's just manifestation.

Dawn Damon:

So how do you what what would you say? If somebody says, Well, that's just a coincidence? Well, that's just, you know what I mean? Obviously, we know we have to do our part. But but here's how I feel. And I want to hear what you think. But I don't think it's anti biblical. I believe God's principle in His Word talks about First of all, it's the favor of God.

Seyi Bank-Oni:

Yes.

Dawn Damon:

Secondly, it is making the vision clear writing it down Habakkuk two make it clear, it is also become what you behold and what you what you visualize, also wrapped up in neuroscience that we're learning so much more about that the brain works like on command, you've given it a target, and it goes after it. So isn't it biblical principles with scientific principles? Again, we said in the beginning, during our prayer, before we got on, these are laws that work and if there are laws, then there's a law giver, and God is the law giver. So how do you see it? I mean, how does it work?

Seyi Bank-Oni:

I definitely think it's a mix of both biblical and scientific there's, it could be it could be one or the other. It could be both. It's still the same thing. That's how I feel if you are not a believer, you can go with the science bit of it. If you're a believer, you can go the biblical if you're both like me, it's a mix of both. You know, the Bible also says you know, as a man thinketh so is he exact same thing, science will tell you the same thing, your subconscious mind is so powerful, your thoughts actually create your reality, it is what it is. A lot of people feel like, you know, maybe it's a coincidence or it's not real, it's woowoo stuff to that I just say okay, sure. Okay, I'm someone who has experienced it time and time and time and time again. So I'm not going to argue with you or try to change your mind. It's just not going to happen. There's a lot of people that believe a lot of things. There's a lot of people who feel God doesn't even exist. I'm not going to try and convince you there's a lot of people who feel science is a conspiracy vaccines are not real. Okay.

Okay, you know, for everything for every law for every factor for every whatever belief there's someone that's out there that's going to counter it or not believe it are going to think it's crazy are going to think you're crazy for believing it. Um, for me, I don't I don't really care about that. I believe what I believe I know what I've seen. I know what I've experienced. It is absolutely impossible for anyone to tell me otherwise that God does not exist that these these universal laws do not exist because I have felt it I have experienced it. It's not you know, this happened to my friend or my neighbor. It's like, this is what happened to me. This is what continues to happen to me. This is what I continue to experience every single day of my life, even down to

Going back to the nine to five job, my last nine to five job. I remember writing down the specific date that I was going to leave right from when I started. And I left that was that was when I left. And it's like, I can't even make this stuff up. There's no way to. That's a whole lot of coincidence. This is what I would say. Right? That's a whole lot after a while. It's not a coincidence. Yes.

Dawn Damon:

So is there a process that you begin, let's say that, you know, God puts this desire in your heart, he you begin to sense that there's something and I'm sure it's not just material things, and we certainly aren't trying to control people. And you know, like, in terms of violating someone else's will, but but what, for me, it's like, I know, I'm an author. And I know, and I'm an Amazon best selling author. But I also know that I want to be a New York Times bestselling author. So for me, I've written that down. It's on my vision board in and I also see it, and I also read it, and I'm believing God for it. What is your process, you start to feel a desire of something that you think this is part of your future? What do you?

Seyi Bank-Oni:

usually I pray about it first, like Lord does this from you, okay, I have that peace, I have to have that peace in my heart that this desire is from God. And this, this is really what I want. Because you know, there's such a lot of noise. There's just a lot of things going on. And sometimes you may be influenced thinking you want this, but you don't really want it, you probably just saw five ads on Instagram. So I pray about it. And until I get peace about it, if it's something that I forget about in two weeks, because it does happen, you know, shiny, new happens to me, like, Oh, I want this, I want this. No, I don't, I didn't really want it. Right. If I had that piece on my heart, and it's nagging on my heart, and it's constantly on my mind, and I have that peace, I pray about it. That's the first thing, the next thing that I do. And this is not a defined process anyone has to follow, it's just what I do is I start to think about it, I start to visualize it in the morning when I wake up because it's on my mind. And like seeing myself in that position. Or I want to say like matching the energy of what it is that I want. Whatever it is, I'm like seeing myself if I want a certain iPhone, let's say for example, I'm seeing myself using the iPhone, when I close my eyes, I'm going to bed or waking up in the morning. I'm like, seeing myself in different scenarios in different situations about iPhone, or if it's, let's say kids, you know, seeing yourself with your future kids hanging out, taking them to the playground and feeling those emotions. That's how it works. For me, I feel those emotions. You know, if I say I want twins, I'm visually visualizing myself at the playground and my twins. I'm feeling those emotions. You know, I'm so excited. I'm so happy. That's how it works for me, usually, sometimes I take it to my journal as well. And I just start to write it down. And it's not because I'm trying to force it. It's just my emotions flowing. It's like, oh, man, I'm so thankful This is gonna come to pass. I'm so thankful for my, for my twins. I'm so thankful for this. I'm so thankful. And just also being in a state of gratitude. That is literally all I do. And I kid you not, it always comes to pass. But one thing that I think makes it real. And one thing that I feel like brings it to my reality is feeling that emotion, you'll hear a lot of manifestation, people saying match the energy of what it is you want to attract. That's just saying, Be in that vibe or being that emotion of what it is that you want. You know, how is it going to feel when you're a New York, bestselling author, you're going to be so excited. Oh, my god, you're cool. You're going to call you're going to call your mom, your husband, oh, my God, I made it and all that stuff, and they start getting excited and all that good stuff. When you're in that energy, it's only a matter of short amount of time that it comes to pass. That's basically my process.

Dawn Damon:

Yeah, that's a great process. I am very similar to that in and again, like, like we're saying, and then of course, I have to write the book, you know, because if

Seyi Bank-Oni:

I missed that, I have to

Dawn Damon:

do the night do the next right step. Right, take the steps in action and take some action and some fierce execution that I'm saying more about gratitude. I think that's so critically important. And you know, the world that we're living in right now, and it's difficult, right? How do you stay in a space of gratitude and Thanksgiving?

Seyi Bank-Oni:

So for me worship music always helps worship music always takes me from zero to 100 even no matter how down I am, if I play that worship music, there's no way I'm not going to you know, feel uplifted. So that's one way that helps me. Another thing is it's so one thing about gratitude is it takes you away from focusing on what it is that you're lacking, or what it is that you don't have. Because back to the law of attraction and manifestation if you're focusing on lack, you're going to attract more of lack. Right? So instead of saying, Oh, I don't have this iPhone, you need to focus on what else it is that you have or be grateful for the iPhone that's coming as opposed to Oh, what was

You don't have it. Right. So it's it's so important to be grateful. Some haven't my husband gave me a gratitude journal like two days ago, which I haven't used. Having a gratitude journal or just a regular journal where you just give things every day, writing down, you know, five or 10 things that you're grateful for looking around you, there's so much that you may not even think of you have electricity, there's people that don't have electricity, clean water, being thankful for even the smallest of things there is, my mom always said this growing up, there is always, always, always, always something to be thankful for. Even if it's your hands, there's people that don't have hands, if it's your legs, there's people that don't have legs, there's always something to be thankful for. And I just try to remind myself, and that's not to say, there's not going to be moments where you feel down and you feel out and you're like, Woe is me, this sucks. Life sucks. I have those moments, but I just don't let myself sit in it for too long. You know, I give myself a couple of minutes. If I want to cry, cry it out. If I want to sulk, I sulk for a couple of minutes, maybe an hour. And then I try to move on. I try to pick myself up. I try to find things to be grateful for I try to listen to my worship music. It's okay to feel bad, you're human, you're always going to have moments where you feel bad, but just don't sit in it for too long, and just have to be grateful for or you help someone else. That's another thing that helps find someone else to help if you can find.

Seyi Bank-Oni:

As you mentioned, clubhouse sometimes when I feel down, when I go in clubhouse, and I start helping people and giving out value and helping people with their businesses and their manifestation. I feel so energized after one hour. I'm like, Whoa, this feels so good. So helping people also brings like, it raises your vibration. And it makes you feel good.

Dawn Damon:

So true. And such great advice. Because gratitude isn't just an emotion, it's something that we can cultivate, right? We can practice being granted grateful.

We can practice like you said, Get that journal and write those things down. Start your morning with three things that you're grateful for close the evening with something that you're grateful for that happened during the day for you. But so don't wait for the emotion of gratefulness to come in. Come go ahead and cultivate that. And and create that. That emotion and that attitude, that posture towards God. And I agree. You know, the other day, I was helping another pastor with something and oh, my goodness, it was my whole gift mix was coming out, you know, and I was getting I was giving advice that I you know, what, between us I know, I don't know this stuff. Like it was just getting a download from heaven. Right? So I'm like, Whoa, this is so good. And I got done. And I just I went on I did a podcast just by myself just like because I was just so full. I had to get it out. And that that the energy was there and then you know what, I still think there's an enemy out there that that deceiver, my computer crashed and I lost the whole thing. But I'm like, that's okay. That's just a clue. You know what, hey, you were threatened by that. That's all right. I'm gonna do it again. But

But you're right, like what when I get done pouring out if it's in the area where it juices me up. I don't feel drained after I feel full. I feel vibrant. I feel alive. And and that's one way that I know that. I'm doing like you talked about your nine to five you are drained. There was no vitality. There was no joy there. Now you're in an area. And when I'm listening to you speak. I mean, it's so very evident that you're in the zone. You're in your sweet spot. You're doing what God created you to do. So beautiful. I love watching it and I love hearing it. I was taking I was taking notes, man, I'm like,

yeah.

Yeah, so it's beautiful. Hey, before we close, thank you so much for being on with me today. What would you tell the person let's talk about your, your coaching just for a moment. How could somebody get a hold of you and and I loved what you said the other day.

You gave so many good things. But what would you tell the person who's in a nine to five but they're really identifying with you right now saying I am not made for this. I have a dream for something more.

Seyi Bank-Oni:

I would say if God put that desire in your heart, you have to go for it. Like you mentioned the execution piece. God has done his part he's put the desire in your heart. The moment you step out on faith, I kid you not. God will provide the people the tools, the resources, fun story about the last nine to five that I left. I did not have any savings. I didn't have any clients lined up. My husband didn't have a job.

I still did it. I still I was like God, I know you got me You are not going to let me fall. Two days later from my life after my last day of work two days after my husband got a job and amazing job that he had been waiting for. And mind you he had it was so difficult for him to get a job because when he moved his like COVID and all that good stuff.

He got a job like two days later, the day after my last day of work two days after. And a week after my last day of work, I attracted I had raised my rates to $10,000. And I talked two clients at $10,000, a week after I stepped out on faith. So I don't know where these people came from. I don't know these people, I don't know where they came from.

Dawn Damon:

Those are my first five figure clients. So what I have to say is, step out on faith. Make sure it is God that is speaking to you Don't be don't do anything crazy. Step out on faith. And another thing that helped me was getting support, I have an accountability coach. So get support, get someone that knows what they're doing someone that has told the path that you want to, you want to tow, and that's why I'm here. But find someone get that support and make sure you actually know what you're doing. But all in all, just trust God that if you put that desire in your heart, he will give you the resources, tools and the people to make that dream come to pass.

That's, that's amazing. And you shared that the other day on that you raised your rates and you got more clients because that you were showing the value that you have. And obviously you had the secret hidden years of preparing yourself and being ready, but you discern your worth. Yeah. And then you share that with the world. And then they know hey, this woman is is worth it. And you're a great role model for for the rest of us who are saying, gosh, I'm still I'm still giving myself away for free. You know what, stop that right

Seyi Bank-Oni:

stop it!

Do not give yourself away for free. I always say people pay pay attention to what they pay for. I mean, just as humans, it's just human nature. When you pay for something, you're giving your energy and your attention to that thing. versus if you get it free. It's just the way things work. It's just human psychology. So no, don't give out your stuff for free. I don't believe in giving out your stuff for free. Unless it's you know, kind of how I do it on clubhouse you just want to give value. And it's not from a place of fear or from a place of, you know, scarcity and lack and you're just like Well, let me just give it for free because I'm afraid or I don't know if people will actually pay me if it's just you wanting to give from the goodness of your heart or God put it on your heart and that is completely fine. But if it's from a place of fear, then no don't. You don't have to do

Dawn Damon:

beautiful. Thank you so much for being with us today. A brave hearted woman and tell us how can people find you if you are the right client and you're listening to this and you say that is value I just started I want to connect with her where can they find you?

Seyi Bank-Oni:

My favorite spot to hang Oh my two favorite spots to hang out one is Instagram so my Instagram is @thebrandpowerhouse. So @thebrandpowerhouse and my clubhouse as well. I'm always on clubhouse it is @brandpowerhouse, but the best place just send me a DM on Instagram and I will be happy to chat with you. I'll be happy to set up a free consultation call.

Dawn Damon:

Wonderful and I will also have those social media links in the show notes everyone. Thank you so much for being with us. Seyi. I can't wait to see what is next for you on the horizon. We got to stay connected. And for all of you listening, brave hearted woman This is your moment to live your brave visions Dawn Damon saying peace out.

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About the Podcast

The BraveHearted Woman
Helping midlife women live brave by exploring the traits of success: Vision clarity, Identity confidence, disciplined mindset, empowering self-talk, and positive habits with courageous actions.
Welcome to The BraveHearted Woman, a podcast dedicated to calling out the brave, bold, beautiful dreams women have for their lives. I’m your BraveHeart mentor, Dawn Damon.
I’m a Confidence Coach, Author, Teacher, and Speaker, whose ultimate goal is to champion women like you!
As your BraveHeart mentor and certified coach, I push you to shed false limits, labels, and lies, so you can find yourself, discover your dreams, boost your confidence, and flourish in midlife and beyond. And because I know how scary it can be to take steps of courageous action that lead to change, I want to support and equip you as you move toward any life transformation you desire!
Our discussions cover various topics for mid-life women, including bold life reinvention, beauty hacks, powerful mindsets, healthy habits and disciplines, physical health, spirituality, and soul healing. I help awaken your heart to believe and to see what is possible!

We explore the mindsets of a successful woman, and talk about what I call the “5 Fortitudes of a BraveHearted Women;” of course, I use the acronym BRAVE.
• Bold Vision
• Real Identity
• Able mindsets
• Virtuous Self-Talk
• Excellent Habits

If you want to grow and develop, ignite the flame of your vision, reach your goals, and achieve your dreams, you’ve come to the right place because we are all things “women empowerment.”
So, thanks for stopping by. I believe you will be motivated, inspired, challenged, and, if you keep coming back…changed! Reach me at Dawn@braveheartmentor.com https://www.facebook.com/DawnScottDamon/

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Dawn Damon

HI! It's great to meet you. I'm Dawn Damon, a Podcaster, Best Selling Author, Speaker, and Mentor of BraveHearts and Bold Visionaries . I love to coach and empower women to Live their Brave Vision with courage and fire! I'm the founder of the FreedomGirl Sisterhood Conference and Podcast.

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